Lately I've been making more me time at home (normally my me time consists of a mani/pedi and a shopping spree). Being at home gives me more time to sit and really concentrate on myself and truly relax- read a book, spend time with my puppy Lulu, keep my house neat and tidy...
It was a lil uncomfortable at first, because I feel like I should be doing something other than sit around, but it is necessary to get over these things before you can fully divulge yourself into a relationship!
Try making some time for yourself! You deserve it!